REFLEX: QUESTIONS ABOUT SEX
Spicy topics, hot takes, straight 🔥 convos. Your shortcut to the deep & funny convos you thought only podcast hosts could have.
ReFlex: Questions About Sex is suitable for all consenting ages, and was designed with all genders, non-genders, sexual preferences and orientations in mind, because no matter who you are or what you’re into, we all deserve a little lovin’.
Get cosy, put on some slow jams, and go deep with 50 of our juiciest questions yet.
Get together with close friends, a partner, or fly solo to better understand your body and mind.
Pick a card and get intimate with sensual subjects like orgasms, self-love, consent, foreplay, kinks, and empowerment.
- Improving your sexual experience starts with knowing what you want, why you want it, and how it impacts your livelihood
- We all need to be more accountable for the quality of sex we're having, but also we need to ensure the conversation around it is nuanced and progressive
- The sex industry has really misled and misinformed us about too much. It's time to set the record straight on your own terms.
- If you're interested, cautious, aroused or disgusted by sex, this game is for you.
- This game is for people who have sex and people who want to have sex. Not just any sex, consensual, communicative, honest, open and affirming sex.
- WARNING: may make you mad, happy, horny, or like ***nails on a blackboard*** all at once.
- A collaboration with Australia’s #1 sex toy company, Lovehoney.
- Created with all genders, non-genders, and sexual preferences in mind.
- Designed and printed in Sydney, Australia.
- Box dimensions: H 9.5cm x W 7cm x D 2.5cm.
There are infinite ways but here are some of our faves:
The Classic Flexperience:
Get the conversation flowing. Pick a card at random, read the question aloud, and take turns answering it on reflex. Then, pause for a moment to discuss your responses with the other players before moving on to the next question.
The Power Couple:
Just the two of us. Split the deck and give half to a friend. Grab a random card, ask the question, and take turns answering. Dig a little deeper into each other’s responses with follow-up questions. When you’re ready to move on, the other person selects a random card.
The Solo Artist:
Self-reflection on your own terms. When you’re home alone, spend a little time with each question. Take the opportunity to analyse your own opinions and the reasoning behind them.
Take turns in the spotlight. Pick a random question, read it out, and answer it. Other players can ‘interrogate’ you by each asking one clarifying question about your response. Take turns to read, answer and be quizzed.
Get the inside scoop. One person is ‘The Interviewer’. They go through the deck and select a targeted question for each other player, keeping it face-down. Everyone gets a chance to be interviewed. When it’s your turn, flip the card, read the question aloud, and answer on reflex. Only the Interviewer can ask follow-up questions about your responses.
If you come up with your own way of playing, we’d love to hear about it! Send your version to firstname.lastname@example.org
They came and were absolutely beautifully made! I asked my boyfriend some of the ~spicy~ questions and we had a great chat! I love these cards and will be purchasing more.
I cracked out the reflex cards the morning after a big night out with the girls and learnt a thing or two about my friends that I did not anticipate! Sharing a toilet stall at a club is not as intimate as a game of reflex!
These questions are such a great way to talk about sex. I learned so much about my partner and our (already great) relationship has improved so much!
Great product so much fun if you want to really get to each other more than you possibly put have any other way,
Bought this and Reflex #1 and now might just use this to vet any potential dates/partners. Great variety of questions, quick delivery and cheeky lil lolly bag as a bonus. Thanks FF xx